Ok, I she did get me to sit down with her and kept asking why are you doing this to me? Asked me how I could let her cry with out holding her.

She was saying all she ever wanted was for me to love her, no one loves her. She is being tossed aside.

I finally got out of there by saying I needed to go get some work done.

Puppy,

The understatement of the year is that she is not used to me standing up for myself. I have been the caretaker of her feelings for far too long. I have always tried to make her happy...talk about co-dependent.

I just kept saying I'm sorry your hurting so much. I've been thinking about a lot of things and I made the decision to move back into by bed.

She asked me if I was going to behave this way during the divorce...I'm going to dinner now.

Thanks everyone, will update later.


Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms