Thanks for the support guys. She is sobbing asking me how I can treat her like nothing and like she is a whore. She says no one wants her ( another reference to the OM dropping her for his wife). Man she is playing the guilt card. Maybe I will take the kids out for some dinner.
One thing that would be okay to say to her Neil is "I'm sorry to see you hurting so much." THAT'S IT. Not "I'm sorry he dropped you," not "I'm sorry if my moving to MY OWN BED upset you," none of that. Just "I hate to see you hurting" or "I'm sorry to see you hurting." If she tries to say it's YOUR fault! say "I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm going to get a bite to eat with the kids, we won't be long."
