Just realized that my last post makes me look like a deadbeat and makes it seem like we were unhappy for the past year and a half, neither of which is really true. I supported her for most of our marriage, while she went to school (she is 13 years younger than me) and we were never at each others throats. I was never abusive and we rarely fought. I think that she became disappointed with me last year (and rightfully so, I suppose) and repressed a lot. Therefore, I wasn't really aware of the gravity of the situation until the bomb dropped. Hope it isn't too late to restore our love.
Separated 40 y.o. man who blames himself for his WAW and hopes to reunite and repair relationship and family.
