antlers & Gima:
"Man, you are the only one who can make yourself happy! If you've lost sight of this fact, then you need to identify ways to refocus your attention and energy onto yourself."

You guys have hit the nail right on the head. I have lost sight of this fact. Maybe I have never fully embraced it ever in my life.

What are some of the things that you folks have done to refocus energy and attention onto yoruself? Please share. I've gotten back into exercise and joined a social club. Maybe I'm expecting too much too soon in terms of getting over her..


M 57
W 52
Married 12, Together 14
No kids by this marriage
2nd marriage for both