She is OK. You can monitor her but ler her cry it out. All you said was you are moving back in your bed. You are stating a boundary, she is having the EA and wants out. She will respect you for this, just hard for you to see. If she starts in on you just calmy state, "Sorry you feel that way. It's my bed and I am going to sleep in it." Nothing further to discuss right now.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.