I just got an email from my L that she did another Request for Production to update his financials. I do think that he will wind up paying at least half of the medical and therapy copays, and I have paid the entire thing for the last 7 months. If I had extra money and I wasn't paying for the therapies I think that would be bad, but right now I'm running at being about $900 short each month for bills/expenses. The copays will make up about $500 of that, and then I need to get a job also. My last 2 temp jobs are the only reason I've been able to make it! I have decided since the next custody check is due tomorrow night, to hold off on emailing that email though until after he gives the alimony/child support check tomorrow. He's got a bad temper, although he's always been great about the support checks, but I'd rather not take a chance.
Did some more volunteer work today, and will keep doing this week. They're cleaning/painting one of our local middle schools. They're trying to get the whole community involved, so I was glad to help and get my mind off D stuff. The kids came and helped out too of course.