little do they know.....if we didnt have such strong beliefs in marriage , the covenant, what the horrible divorces do to our children...we would gladly move on.....it isnt even so much them ...and certainly not who they are NOW....THAT keeps one willing to reconcile...in my mind once u get to a point where you have dealt with the hurt....and betrayal....and while you still have sadness.....if it was all ABOUT US and how we love them and cant move on....heres the facts.......if i could really in my heart believe that it didnt matter what choice we made ...i wouldnt take him back on a bet....BuT WHEN U READ THE BIBLE and understand what God says aout Divorce you ask for the grace to deal with it...not so much for us anymore....we just are educated and want to live an obident life......we also know that statics show that another partner doesnt change the things that matter to our core...so switching partners in the long run people are not happier....( is life all about being happy anyway another point if i could really believe we are here just to be happy.....i would gladly...move on...take people up on all those people they say would appreciate me.....and with Children....its never over anyway....so its not really about whether or not we would move on.....please once your healthy, the bleeding stops and the heart as some scar tissue ....you would love to tell them to take a hike and never look back....but when trying to live in a throw away society, where families are disposable, where divorce is rampant....where studies show the divorcer is not usually happier after they did the dirty deed.....divorce and wreck havic on all the affected lives.....but they can still point our way and continue to place blame......just so unbelievable this whole thing is ..it makes no sense to the logical mind
yeah just keep detaching......its really a sad state of affairs these men are in....gosh darn they wanted the divorce so bad...why dont they move on......WELL INTERESTING ....THEY DONT STILL BLAMING AND STUCK......I THINK THE WORLD NEEDS TO HAVE A MLC ON A TV SPECIAL...no one has a clue until they have lived this side of it
SO I LOVE IT THEY TEACH THE KIDS TO GET DIVORCED AND MOVE ON.....BUT MAKE SURE THEY BLAME US...THESE POOR KIDS...IT BREAKS MY HEART WE HAVE MADE THIS THEIR LIFE
OK HANG IN THERE...JUST SPARKED A VENT IN ME...God love us ! and protect us.....
