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Having his attention and his flirtatiousness and his persistent preoccupation with what I think puts the burden on me.


Exactly why he does it. To control you. Chemistry or dysfunction?

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Getting clobbered here helps too.


Glad to help. grin

Handle it.

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.