But it is still hard when you care about someone and love them to watch them have a difficult time with stuff.
K4D,
This comment makes me think you still don't understand detachment. You detach for you AND them! You do it BECAUSE you love them! Please re-read the article:
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today