It seems to help my mood to post things on this site.
I’m very reluctant to respond to other strings at this point because I have not totally bought into the divorce-busting philosophy. I guess that I need to give it more time and to follow the script a lot more closely.
Hey, man!
Do you buy into the philosophy that when you focus less on your spouse and more on yourself, you can start making your life enjoyable again? That's DB'n. Do you buy into the philosophy that regardless of what happens with your marriage, it is you who are responsible for your own happiness? That's DB'n. Do you buy into the philosophy that you can identify ways to achieve happiness independently of your relationship? That's DB'n.
Man, you are the only one who can make yourself happy! If you've lost sight of this fact, then you need to identify ways to refocus your attention and energy onto yourself.
Start DB'n.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
