I'm going to approach him about no ML tomorrow (or the next time the topic comes up). I'll say something along the lines of: As long as you are emotionally connected to OW and not committed to me and our M vows, I can no longer be sexually intimate with you.
Sound ok?
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10