First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Thanks WDID. I know there are many on this board that would die for the chance I have, but let me say, all is not wonderful in H4U land and I'm not sure how I'm going to handle some things.

Caught W in a lie last night. Her old boss called and she sat right there with me while she talked to him. And I could hear what he was saying. It was totally mundane stuff, so no worries there, but about a half hour before he called her phone rang a couple times and then whoever called hung up. Now everyone knows on cell phones that when someone calls and hangs up you get the "missed call" thingie. then he calls a little later. A few minutes after their call, I said "was that him that called earlier and hung up?" and W replied (in a fairly snotty tone) "I don't know". Now you and I know that's a lie.

So now I'm stuck with how to handle that. And I have mixed emotions. On one hand there's a part of me that wants to call her on it and have the big WTF is going on discussion. Another part of me thinks things have been progressing well and I shouldn't push her on this. We HAVE made big progress and it seems to be getting better and better all the time and there'll be a time and place to deal with things like this and I should just act as if it doesn't bother me.

Second thing, I stopped by W's office today to get the tour of her new building. She was excited that I did and took me around the whole building, showing me everything. Did I mention she was excited? Anyway, I have a seat in her office and what's front and center on her file cabinet? That freakin glass. And then I looked on her window ledge and there's a coffee cup that says "I (heart symbol) LA" Now we've never been to Los Angeles so that' cup is about Louisiana, and that's where OM is from and I KNOW he got it for her.

So here we are. Everything is progressing nicely, but there's something holding her back when she's at work and not when she's at home on the weekends or when we're out of town. And it's either those affair momentos or friendly contact with the POS when she's at work.

Again, not sure how to handle it. One part of me wants to confront her and have the WTF are we doing conversation. The other part of me thinks, we're progressing nicely, let it go for now and at some point those things won't have the meaning to her that they do and then I'll deal with them.

So that's where I am. Happy where we seem to be going and seem to have progressed to, but frickin livid when I see that kind of stuff wonderfully displayed for all the world to see just how dreamy the POS was.