Oh yeah: Regarding counseling, eh, I know the problems and the solutions regarding myself...not talking about the ex at all here.As stated, I get rid of the mental fatigue, that's at least half of my problem gone. Then I would move on to problem #2, and we all know what that is. I want to do the coaching thing, bit pricey, but hey, you have everything to possibly gain too. Um, in order to do that, I have to address the other issues first. Oh brother.