BJ, you gave me a nice concise update on your sitch. I know the pain of the cheating. It's really awful. Maybe your h has too much access? Must be frustrating. I can understand your need to pack him up. It actually feels good, esp. when you have so little control of anything else about him. Nice to take charge of that. I think it's a very cleansing process. Perhaps it may be a slap of the reality of the situation for your H as well. Take care
