psycho called at 1230, i had a private caller on the caller id. totally her because he was home before 130, the timing was just right for when he walked out the door by her.
anyway, all hell broke loose here because he was angry i sold the patio set without asking him.
so i said, i didnt realize it was a big deal, i am using the money to pay the bills u didnt pay. i said, u can have the $600, just show me u are paying the bills.
tells me it was marital property so i said, u havent given me money, i need to pay the bills, not to mention, u didnt consult me when u sold the contents of our store.
and i said, u left the house.
tells me we shouldnt pay for insurance on the house if we are moving. i was like, but we live here.
tells me he has no money no job. i said, well, that is what u say but who really knows the truth. i said, either way, your cars havent been reposessed, somehow u have money, what about your son?
i followed our conversation up in an email to him, listing the amount of money he last handed me, what bills are unpaid, that i paid our late income taxes because he refused etc. i sent a copy to my attorney.
he also tells me now not to sell the living room. i said, im selling it to pay back the credit card, we havent even paid for the funiture! tells me no.
he is in for a rude awakening. he must really htink im so kind that i will split our things? AS IF...
i may seem like a doormat with my affection for him, but not my things, not our only assets. he blew all of our money on an affair, he gets nothing.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09