Of course, the THIRD option of how it could go is that he would seem to be sincerely wanting to try and fix things, express remorse, and ask YOU what YOU want. This is why I wanted you to have your list handy.
If he does, you can share those with him if you wish, but I STILL think it would be better to push it back at him and say "I appreciate you asking, but frankly, this is your mess, and I think YOU have to clean it up. What do YOU think needs to happen?"
It's up to you. I would NOT make this too easy on him, and I think it would be darned near impossible to make it TOO HARD.
