Just so you know...

[bluerain]

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. I think Im partially venting, partially feeling out how it feels to say it all out loud.

Karen, I was toying with the idea of going with. The military will still pay to move me, but honestly, Im not sure that would be wise. Im thinking that I need to switch gears and start building my life. If he wants to be a part of it, then wonderful, if not, I need a plan B. Im not financially independent right now, and I have to get there, Im not sure how yet, I may have to get a roommate. YUCK!

Mostly, I am at a point now where its his turn. I need to see some kind of action on his part. Since holding my breath waiting to see it would be a terrible idea, Im just going to start off on my own path. Im not going to sign any papers right now, that will still be his responsibility, but if he wants a D then he can have it. My patience ran out when he started treating me like trash again. I deserved more than him just dropping off the face of the earth like he did.