Which she did after you told her you have moved on. Doesn't make it right, though.
And yes, she had another mini stroke the Friday before 4th of July, which she withheld from me.
It confuses me why you feel that she has to share this with you. If you consider yourself married (which you are), then yes she should tell this to you and you would care for her, etc....in sickness and health and all that. But, I thought you were acting as if you were divorced (which you are not), and in that case, she would tell her bf this so he could take care of her.
I'm sounding super B**chy, but you and I have talked since the very beginning and we both have a strong faith, so you know why I say what I do. At the end of the day we all do what WE think is right even if the whole world is screaming at us something different. I have been there. I know what the friends you surround yourself with think, but maybe going back to your faith, or talking to a close church friend or pastor may help you to see clearly.
I would love to just act all happy happy for you and this new relationship, but that would be like my egf and how she was to me. I truly believed what I was doing was right at the time....I thought, I AM separated, and my H doesn't seem to care WHAT I do ...it's been years....I DESERVE to be happy...I DESERVE to live my life.....This new person finds me attractive and loves me and I DESERVE that....This is the happiest I have been in a long time and I DESERVE that soooo..."
This sounds like I am judging you, and after what I've done I have no right. I'm not judging you, I'm just telling you what I wish others would have told me at the time....I know you see your situation as different from mine, but there ARE some similarities, and the biggest is that you are still married and you are with someone else.
