so.... what to do? disclose? sit calm? go to the doc and get some pills to level the emo rollercoaster a bit? get him to direct me to some IC?
do I let the little weasel know that I know? he lied to me a week ago when we went camping. he knew I'm suspecting him - so he came to me 1st and gave me a talk that she's my wife and he is not going to interrupt things. that he's a friend of ours. but gave me a 'friendly' advice to give it up cause 'if a woman doesn't love you - it makes no sense'. blah blah. &$%^#@.
scary thing - her mother is a pastor. She's like a mother to me now too... I talked with her about our problems 1,5 weeks ago. I never mentioned the particular OM. Yet she said 'I had a dream, watch out for THIS guy'. I know she kept our talk to herself. Said she'll be praying for us. Parents are gone for another 2 weeks - european vacations. do I let her know?
