Just my 2 cents, which may come late - unemployment has been extended even more. No matter what you explain to your boys, they may very well feel you are leaving them. I couldn't be away from my S that much.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.