Ok got it Pup. I do want him to be the one pursuing and I need to keep that in mind. I ws kinda wrong when I made new plans an hour later and snubbed our date, but I'm trying to show him that he doesn't have that 100% hold over me anymore. I gotta remember to not pursue and let him keep the pursuit up. B/c shoot, men are suppose to pursue anyway.
mdoodles, I know for sure that I need boundaries set up before we live together b/c I don't want that crazy chick disturbing my life anymore. Enough is enough. Unfortunately she can't just disappear b/c of the child but she has to becoem background noise. I saw ur update with crazy chick. I really think the ow in our lives have read the same handbook.
