Not that you solicited my insights on your present swirling hot lava cumulonimbus cloud BUT .... I think I may have some that I don't feel that I can contain.
for 1) Oh to have the innocence of a child as evidenced by your own gifts from God. WHat they are spouting from their young minds perhaps is not the fairly tale that perhaps you are categorizing it as me thinks.
Take a lesson or two or three. Amazing how there are times when Kids can be the teachers fro the adults. The faith that they don't even knowe that they posess. You need to adopt that faith. The faith that as a fellow follower of Christ Jesus we need to trapse out onto the proverbial skinny tree limb with even as a still louder voice than the one coming from our inner one tells us it is not wise to do so.
This is a test of faith. ANd I think your kids in what they are ushering forth from there mouths ahve the unjaded true vision of what is to come. Fortunate for them they know very little of the insane earthly stuff that you and I do.
Maybe they don't need correction at all. Maybe you do BBJ.
Strive to adopt a "faith" that is like those kids of your's. Unbridled faith by anything of this fallen world. All things imaginable are within His reach. His timing must be waited on if you are to see the perfectness of His plan for you.
My prayers as always you will have directed to bust the evil one's grip on the family that is to be for you BBJ. It will be magnificent.