Puppy,

I agree with your philosophy.

I need to do further investigating through my bank to find out. At this point, I don't have the drive to keep snooping...I'm mentally exhausted. I don't want to cause additional damage. As Sandi says, "don't drive your W into the arms of OM." My W is going to have an affair, if not already, if she so desires. I want to save my marriage by becoming the best I can be. If that's not enough, I'll have to deal with it. I want to take the high road as much as possible.

Thanks,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009