Ah, I remember those conflicts with my mom I paid for my own tattoo though...
Trust me, in a few years, she'll "get it". I remember having a light bulb moment when I was in my early 20's!
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011