i think u need to set those boundaries and be firm from the start.

i am like u and thought u need to establish the relationship and then slowly address the issues, and it backfired on me.

im thinking puppy will tell u what to do and im thinking he will agree with the boundaries being in place now.

did u happen to read my latest about psycho ow calling?

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09