Thanks for your reply. No, I don't have proof of an affair. Today I say this would be a dealbreaker for me; however, I'm not sure what I'd be feeling down the road as I see my family being torn apart. If my W exhibited remorse and had a huge desire to reconcile...who knows...maybe I would be able to forgive. Never say never! Again, I don't want to be borrowing trouble, but it doesn't look good. I held my kids so close to me on the couch last night as we watched a Star Wars movie together. I can't help but be very concerned for my kids. This pain hurts like nothing I've ever experienced.
I'll keep posting, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009