Thank you for your reply. I do not have proof of an affair...just alot of strange behaviors, actions, and information. I just don't know how to interpret all of this. I keep wondering if I made a mistake about approaching my W with this. Maybe I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill.
You're right about continuing to work on my positive changes. I have become a better person b/c of this situation, but I still have alot of work ahead of me. Like Sandi says, "make yourself into a man no woman can leave." If my W doesn't want the new and improved me, maybe someone else will.
Thanks, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009