Cagz,

I'm sorry. Your daughter is seeing all the dysfunction in your ex. Love her and nurture her during this time. I am here to tell you that all of this will work in your favor. It will all come around in time. If it was meant for you to find another love you will. You will be happy again. You do not need ex or another man to make you happy though.

I feel horrible that you are going through this. The OW #4 will like the rest see through your ex and bolt. They cannot attract healthy relationships right now.

Trusting....


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11