Thanks A&K,

Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking

Are you going to present that list of options to her in writing or verbally?


I am not sure. Right now I am waiting to see what she does re Retrovaille. From the discussions this weekend she knows that the next move there is for her to call, and she knows that I said if she did not then I would contact a mediator. Let's see if she calls.

If she doesn't, then the best thing to do is probably to write it all out. Verbal communication isn't working very well between us right now.


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