I did not know Marc was autistic, my apologies and yes, that changes everything.
My s12 was "concidered" to be autistic for quite some time and still is a handful at times due to injuries from XW's first XH.
You are spot on and the only way to handle items such as discipline is through repetition, no other way. So perhpas in some way defending Gabe's question on what to do was to mantain that repitition? Thinking open mindedly as there were many times I'd find I'd do things one way while XW did it another and we were getting nowhere on some issues with S12.
I don't think you can have him incarcerated for failure to pay CS tho?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11