Earl Grey....hm....yours posts are perplexing. Bagheera and others have given you stellar feedback and advice, yet you just keep spouting out the same information to them. Are you actually reading and taking in their advice? And if not, maybe you are not actually here seeking advice, but just to vent. That's fine, too. Many of us here are just journaling sometimes to help ourselves see our situation in words, to help us organize our thoughts. Maybe that's what you are doing. But you sure don't seem to actually want any advice, nor take it in when it is given.

Perhaps you can explain for us what you really would like here on this board?

DQ