I could be off base, but I think you will still want to be her knight in shining armor, riding to the rescue of this damsel in distress. She won't seek help or accept help because she doesn't see it. You and OM are the problem....not her (as far as she's concerned).
Wanna save her? Then do the wise thing and get the heck out of dodge. When did you take a look at yourself? When she left you...wasn't it? When will she take a look at herself? When she NEEDS to make the changes. She's coming back soon...get your stuff out of there and be dark. Get going...ASAP
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
