Hi BH -- sorry you're here, but you will find that it's a great resource.
It really wouldn't even matter if she asked for D instead of S -- it can still be saved! Very few THREATS of divorce turn into actual divorce, and you can't control it anyway -- all you can do is work on YOU (and it sounds like you have some work to DO).
What did the two of you agree upon, if anything, about dating while separated?
