Hey Friends, Old and New (And what was old is new again, B.!)
Well, the time was right last night, and GymWoman and I were having a glass of wine on her deck, after she had worked all weekend, and I was at Reserves. We got talking about how we both reacted when our respective spouses told us they were dumping us. I told her I didn't handle it well at all, and she asked what I meant by that. I told her about my total breakdown in March of 2006 when I spent some time in the Silly Hospital, and I told her exactly how I got there. We have been seeing each other almost every other day since December.
She just looked at me and told me that it didn't matter, that's not who I was now, and that she was so happy and it meant a lot to her that I trusted her with that issue, and that she loved me more than ever. I wish you all find someone like her!
I think we all know deep down that those of us here are really good people who got the short end of some shallow spouses.
I do think that although Michelle feels that the vast majority of marriages can be saved, I'm NOW happy that mine was not! I don't think any of you remember me from 2006, but.........you would not recognize me.