Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Calling them means calling her which unitl recently lead to no good and still not talking to boys, or if I did finally get to talk them they were standoff-ish due to XW in backround puttin gon one of her sobbing performances.

Also, calling them this weekend was not an option as they were out of town with OM and her attitude on the phone is always lack-luster under those circumstances.

And finally, I would like to see her encourage the kids to pick up the phone and call.

I also always get the notion I am "intruding" on her time when I make initial contact.

I think htis afternoon when she's on lunch, that's if she's even working I'll send a mesage asking if she have them call me tonight. But again, I hate making initial contaact and looking 'needy'