I think that I would talk to your L too, just to make sure that you arent going to compromise your situation at all by sending it. Will your H not voluntarily help you pay for it? Can you just give him the bill? Hasnt he, in the past, been pretty vocal about wanting your D to contiue her therapies?
I plan to cc her, but I had already told her this would be happening. It's not a matter of slashing expenses, there's nothing more to slash. It's a choice of food for us and rent vs. therapies.
My L already emailed his L (who I am sure talked to him and sent the email to H) and said he can't afford to help out b/c of the child support/alimony he is paying. I'm not going to beg him for the $$. I am working on trying to get another job and that would help also. I think at time of divorce, he will have to pay at least 1/2 the copays from everyone I've talked to. Yes, he wants the kids to have therapies if I pay for them. But I can't anymore.
