After going dark over the weekend a few things happened.
Just called my friendly go-between and got told the following.
The friend called my go-between and asked if anyone had seen me. GB says - no and she's worried because no-body has seen me since Tuesday. I've got some cash for my W and arranged go-between to drop it off. Just as I'd put the phone down - go-between gets an SMS from W.
"Please ask Ken to drop money of at pub. Will pick up tomorrow. Don't want other people to be involved in this. H should have called me. We need to work this (finance?) out otherwise I'll have to do what I have to."
Now how do I open communication lines again?
I really think I need an unbiased third party involved but she won't agree to see anyone I line up because she thinks it will be a trick.