Ya. I was thinking about it more this morning and it was hard seeing her and then seeing her look frusturated about her weekend. She doesn't realize how much I love her and want to step in and help her. But I just can't right now and she wouldn't have any part of it. I guess welcome to the single life.
Her drivers license is expired to and she can't get that renewed until her van passes inspection. On top of that, she likes to go out and party and drink and drive. If she ends up getting a DUI with an expired drivers license and a vehicle that has not passed inspection, wow. That won't be a good night for her. Ironically, she never seems to get caught though.
She had spent yesterday cleaning up the kids rooms and didn't find either of their cell phones. So I guess we are getting them new ones.
As usual, its always hard to see her and then see her walk away knowing that nothing has changed in her. She has a ton of pride in her decisions and it takes a miracle to change that. I will say she is definitely a survivor in whatever form that may come in.
The long journey continues.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...