so W just txted asking "do you still want me to come up on tuesday?"
i replied, "i'm sorry i totally forgot. we will have to do it another day."
Excellent. Just as we wrote the script. Good job.
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she texts back, "WOW kay. you've been ignoring me again. what's up with that?"
No answer necessary here. Only answer this question when confronted in person or on the phone... Your answer is... "No I am not ignoring you. Not at all... Anyway... I don't have time to talk right now. I have someone on the other line. Talk to you later"....
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she then called while i was finishing reading her text. i answered, and she says, "how could you forget? we made plans?" i said i didn't remember them being finalized. a friend asked to do something with me tuesday.
See how good your plan worked.. You have her wondering (which is what you want her to be doing) notice how quickly she called you.. Notice how she changed her original "tuesday or wednesday.. to "we made plans" as if it was now in stone...
Very good. This is the right direction and you handled it like a champion. This is how guys who GET the woman proceed when the woman is acting as your woman has been.
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she said," that really hurts. how could you forget about me?" i said "i'm sorry, but hey i was just leaving, we can talk later."
Perfect.... Just perfect.... Hold the line. Stay on this course. Let HEr chase you. (works better that way. she is dying to chase you. LET HER)
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she said, "it doesn't matter, and i don't matter. bye" i said bye and then hung up on her.
grrrrrr. did this go right? it felt really weird!!!!!
It went almost PERFECT. It felt weird because you are so addicted to chasing and pursuing and letting her run this circus that if feels weird to take a risk huh? What? The risk that she starts to wonder if SHE screwed up and has lost you?
Come on.. She needs to know and feel that she MAY have lost you. That isn't done by hanging in there and such...
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UPDATE:
W just txted again saying,
I'm going to come get mina on Wednesday. i can't believe you Josh. You're right you have changed and you aren't treating me like a person. have fun.
BINGO.. So... She texted (contacted) you AGAIN.. She then TELLS you that she IS coming Wednesday.. NOT MAYBE SHE WAS COMING wednesday or thursday.. But she WAS coming Wednesday....
I like the "have fun" comment...
This is working like a charm...... I wouldn't be surprised if you hear from her before Wednesday...
Excellent job... Keep it up.. Hold the line here. Do NOT backslide and get all wishy washy....