Her favorite flowers are carnations, I always send those. I will add the card with no ILY, just happy anniversary. I will get the reservations, but not say anything to her until it is close and see where she is then. She has been talking about the kids' birthdays, my birthday, and her birthday. They are all in August. She hasn't said a word about our anniversary which is also in August. (Big month) So, I don't want to make a big deal about it, but as puppy said, after recent events I would like to acknowledge it.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.