Another thing. OM said W had discovered condoms in his apartment and that the relationship with his new girlfriend is now physical. W is apparently "very depressed" about this. He said W was trying to get him to make love to her "one last time", that she "needed a happy moment" and said to him "let me rape you".

I want to be sick.

OM said the only reason he and wife were physical in her last little visit was because W had insisted that I wanted the baby to be terminated and that she and I were history. I am not necessarily believing him but OM was adamant that he had physically restrained W from being sexual, apologized profusely to me and asked me to forgive him. Unbelievable.

I have taken some pretty drastic measures to avoid dealing with her and she is still able to encroach on my life and good mood.


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)