London's great the best city in the world IMO. Tons to do so it's easy to GAL and keep a PMA living there.

You're right kick starting is out of my hands I should just make the best of opportunities as they arise. Yesterday my H came along to watch my S in a sporting event. Initially awkward but I did my best to be calm and relaxed and although he didn't talk that much I felt it was reasonably positive - I followed it up with a thank you for coming text which could have been pursuing but then again one of H complaints about me was that I was cold and unfeeling so I thought it was a 180. Got no and didn't need a reply.

Any thoughts?


married 23 years
4 grown up kids