i will probably print out each time it happens so it isnt so time consuming, this morning took an hour - too long for me.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
the phone company told me i have a case for harassment and instructed me to dial *57 after each of her calls going forward.
does anyone know what filing harassment entails?
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
im the wrong one to ask when it comes to detaching lol.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Im not sure, I think that you can call the police and just ask about it, you dont necessarily have to press charges, Im sure that you can get information. And they can see around the call block, cant they? So you could confirm that its really her and not teenage boys or whatever. Im certain thats the case, but it would be nice to confirm it.
Im surprised that she has time to be harrassing you like this! Its what spiteful teenage girls do, not grown women!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
no calls last night, h will be home today, i bet my phone will be buzzing as she likes to make contact when he knows he is out here....
i looked into the harassment stuff, if i have to meet her in court, i dont know at this point that i will proceed.
i will keep documenting right now, if it gets worse or threatening, i will go from there.
im going to go pay some of the bills that are sitting here with the money i got from selling our furniture. and will keep the receipts along with everything else i file away...
i think this is all a process. im still upset, still miss him, but on some level, i realize its not so simple to say i want him home. that wont solve anything, it wont be what it was, he isnt who he was and cant be without him wanting to work on himself.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
Don't do this... but I almost want you to answer to see what in the world she wants!!!!! But don't. And yes, you are right....something is up. He was NOT with her when she was going crazy trying to call you. She thinks he was with you.....but I agree, good sign there is trouble for the Pollock.
i know, we are all wondering what she wants but i just dont want to talk to her. one thing if he was living with me, i may want to hear at this point what she has to say.
im protecting myself emotionally by not talking to her. i dont feel like being upset by her and talking to her, reading her texts, will upset me.
i will see what goes on today, h will be home soon. i am planning on going out while he is here, BIG 180 for me.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
I'd suggest you be all dressed up to go out -- looking great and smelling great -- and when you see him pull up, you start heading out the front door with a chirpy "Oh, that's right, I forgot you were coming by. I gotta run, but there's mail on the counter for you and there's some food in the fridge if you're hungry. Don't forget to lock up, okay?" -- and be gone!
