Golfgirl, sorry you find yourself in this situation, but glad you found the forums. Have you read DB or DR yet? If not, then RUN, do not walk, to your local library or bookstore and get DR and start reading.
I strongly recommend that you start your own thread so that you can talk all you want about your own situation and have people post to you directly. And you can add those stats to your signature file and they will appear automatically with all of your posts. Hope that helps!
Peace, Dawn
P.S. Hi, Ella, not trying to ignore you!
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1