Thanks for the reply Dave. I have been giving her space. I did text her today though as it is our 6th Anniversary. No reply back from her but what else can be expected. I do not plan to call her the rest of the week and as much as next week as possible. She will have to come over next week or at least talk to me as I have tickets to a concert that I bought for her for her bday a couple of months ago that she plans to still go to with whom I don't know. I have the book DB and have read it. And I have talked to a DB coach a month ago when I saw that she first started acting strange.
I gave her space the whole time she was at home she just seemed to get worse and worse. I read almost everything that Sandi2 writes on here. Just about the only one that I really follow. sg as well and some of PDT.
Here is what I wrote her in the text today. Felt that I should at least acknowledge our anniversary even though she doesn't want to:
"just wanted to say hi & hope ur apt is in place. I am sure u decorated it real nice. Happy Anniversary"
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33