Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[mishka422]

Ashlee - I'll look for you in our little community on FB.

As far as how to approach the sex subject with your H, you said something that stood out to me as painting a picture of the emotional aspect you are dealing with. I would say that is what you need to add when telling him you will no longer have sex with him. Something like this. "as long as you are emotionally connected to OW and not to me and devoted to our M,sex will not occur."

Calling it an affair may not resonate with him because, frankly, most men do not see an EA as an affair because it is not physical. Unfortunately, men do not see R's the same way as women do.