Trusting, there is a website that is banned from being mentioned here that would help you alot. It has a specific mention of the evil spewing coming for a second time. If you can imagine an old poster here,,,,good info, own website...? Got it? Will help so much.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.