Sara, you have a valid point, I am still working through trust issues, and I recognize that. I'm also taking it a step at a time and don't want to go back to the old sitch of beating myself up every time I make a mistake and always walking on eggshells endlessly. And no, I generally don't cut W off from anyone and I dont intend to. I encourage her to go out more actually. Some time back, I even got her 4/5 best friends together to try and arrange a trip for all of them to an island resort as a surprise birthday gift to her (she had been sad then that she seemed to have drifted away from her friends).
Only exception would be OM and maybe a couple of others. As for the other WAWs, I asked more out of really just wanting to hear others' experiences. The WAWs are actually pretty good friends of mine too, people I care about and would want to be happy.
Trying: I hear you, and also can empathize. W went through similar stages too. I'm actually very happy and grateful (and surprised) we're here now, 20 months after discovery of the A and subsequent periods when it seemed life could never be good again.
yeah a step at a time, and relax
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
