Anniversaries, birthdays, holidays all have a way of unsettling the soul no matter how much you might try to overlook the date or downplay the day. *Hugs* to you.
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My problem getting what I PROBABLY should get is it may hurt the kids (ie she may have to sell the house). I don't want the kids lives interrupted anymore than they have or will.
Divorce changes everything for everyone. Many times the split is not equal but 'equitable'. Keep in mind that you too will be providing a home for the children.. yes? Kids need both parents. With a private practice she can probably hide lots of its value (or so docs who have divorced have done in the past) if she is so inclined. Take the long view of yours and the kids needs.
