Trying to come up with what to say to H about no more sex. I'm thinking something along the lines of as long as he is involved in an affair, sex will not occur. Any suggestions?
I like that. Short and sweet. I will defer to the women's consensus, of course. But as a man, "if A, then B," says it all to me. Ash, I've been following, though not chiming in much. Gotta tell you, you are doing well. You sound strong.
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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac